This blog is about orgasm control, written not as “teasing” or “domination,” but as one way of loving someone.
Orgasm control, for us, means deciding together the days when he gets to come. It isn’t a ban. It’s more like a sweet little ask. I’m the one asking, and I ask him, sweetly, to hold it for me.
Who I’m writing for
- Women who have always gone along with their partner and put up with things. People like the old me
- People who are curious about orgasm control but hesitate, wondering if it only makes him suffer
- People who already practice it and are looking for others who feel the same way, in Japan and anywhere else
What I most want to say
He doesn’t come, and yet we are both happy. Going along with your partner and being fulfilled together are two different things. Once I learned that, my days became this happy.
What this blog does not do
- Explain techniques or step-by-step methods, like “how to make him hold out longer”
- Talk about looking down on a partner or being cruel to him
- Try to persuade anyone. I only offer “this is one way it can be”
About comments
I write in Japanese and the articles are translated into many languages. Comments in any language are welcome. Tell me what it’s called where you live and how it made you feel. Finding out that people around the world feel the same way is the best part of this blog.
This blog deals with sexual content. If you are under 18, please do not read it.